Ask Kate Ariel

Would you stop posting on Facebook, posting pictures on Instagram and Snapping on

Snapchat or whatever people are doing these days LOL…

For the sake of LOVE?

If your partner, your husband asked you to delete your social media, would you? This is a serious question that I have seen passed around on social media.

Some said;

It’s insecure of a man/woman to ask

Some said yes in a Heartbeat

I don’t think there is a wrong or right answer, if you are willing to do it, cool… if you are not. Still cool!

What truly matters is should you HAVE to delete your social media to make

 Somebody happy? And who is to say it guarantees your relationship will be better??

I believe if you HAVE TO stop doing anything that you were ALREADY doing when the person met you, they accepted you, they loved you. THEN try to change you down the line is a recipe for resentment and is not worth the headache it will cost in the long run.

What you should do instead is meet someone who’s already close to the mate you want to spend your life with. Who is already your idea life partner…Who already embodies the traits that you would want in a husband…

Who are more than likely already thinking the thoughts you think and moving in the way you’d like your partner to move.